Love has always been the most important business of life.
--- Anonymous

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

I Am A Child of God - Jag Ar Guds Lilla Barn

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JOrcqqpHCt8

I LOVE THIS.  The new music video and new singers and music for "I am a child of God." The baby and I listen to it several times a day.  Actually, so does the whole family.

Why Motherhood is the Greatest Profession in the World

One of my pet peeves with our society is the celebrity gossip magazines that line the aisles as you want to pay for your groceries.  Why do people honor and idolize fame-- especially when that fame is so often ignoble rather than noble?  Drives me crazy.  Gossip, gossip.  Can't we raise ourselves above this and focus on the many other important, intriguing, hilarious, and beautiful things in the world?

Also, why don't we praise mothers more than we do?  I love this quote from David O. McKay:
"…Motherhood is the most beautiful of all arts, the greatest of all professions. She who can paint a masterpiece, or who can write a book that will influence millions, deserve the plaudits and admiration of mankind; but she who rears successfully a family of healthy, beautiful sons and daughters whose immortal souls will exert influence throughout the ages long after paintings shall have faded, and books and statues shall have decayed or been destroyed, deserves the highest honor that man can give, and the choicest blessings of God."   David O. McKay

Imagine that instead of having billions of good moms and only a handful of famous celebrities, politicians, writers, artists, sports-stars, etc., we had the opposite.  There were billions of Shakespeares, Jimmer Fredettes, Rembrandts, J.K. Rowlings, and only a handful --maybe only fifteen living women who were capable of being mothers, who were physically able to give birth to human beings and to raise them.  How we would long to be one of the chosen fifteen!  How we would envy that glorious experience!  Think of it!  Motherhood is so very miraculous.  Never, never forget or undervalue this life mission so many of us are living!

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Turning Fourteen

I'm letting my daughter go to her first real boy-girl party dance today.  It's a little scary.  I've grilled her about the rules-- no getting in a car with a teenage driver, dance with many boys instead of just one until you are much older, text me to come pick you up if there are bad movies, bad activities, or a bad feeling of any kind.

She is a free agent.  We all are, little by little, bit by bit.  Just like the baby's getting weaned bit by bit.  Independence dawns too fast for this mom, though.

I just want her to be as happy, carefree, and rich in every way that she can possibly be.  And I hope she can outsmart this wily world.  It ain't easy.

Meanwhile, we just got back from back to school night for my third grader.  He wishes school started tomorrow morning instead.  He is so excited.

I miss the kids when school starts.  I don't even understand people who don't miss their kids.  I am not on that planet.  I wish the school day were shorter. 

Sigh.

Monday, August 22, 2011

Capturing the Moment

Right now, Baby H. is playing with AJ's old shoelace.  AJ is playing with Baby H's old elephant rattle.  It's like, one kids' trash is another kids' treasure.

The oven's beeping.  The lasagne is done.  Meatless, whole wheat, homemade tomato sauce lasagne.

"Svenska, Please," I say, when AJ tells Baby H no in English.  The baby was sucking on the old dirty shoelace.  Now he's got the elephant rattle.

AJ can't go play with a friend until he's done his chores and he's being slow to do them, so I guess I get his company today all day.  Fine with me.  I love that little kid.  I just got him and CE back from their father's house yesterday.

School starts this week.  I will really, really miss them then.  I wish school was about 4 hours long, not 6 or 7.  I bet with a little efficiency, we could pull that off.  Mothers miss their kids. 

I would homeschool if I were more organized.  But how do you get laundry, cooking, shopping, dishes, baby tending, schooling, grading, and a million other things done simultaneously?  I do not know. I find it hard to even get my shower some days.

CE is home from babysitting the neighbors.  She is wearing a pink shirt, a pink flowered hair thing, black shorts, and a tan.  High school starts this week!!

Jane Austen, the Economy, and Voting Notions

I find there is less and less common sense in the world, so when I find some, I collect it.  Here's an example or two:

One columnist wrote this:

"... I would raise the voting age to 26. If you're still covered by your parents' insurance policies, you're not an adult. The only exceptions to the rule would be young people serving in the military. I would also require those people who aren't old enough to collect Social Security to prove they pay income taxes. If there is a screwier notion than allowing those who pay no income taxes to vote for those in a position to force those of us who do pay them to pay even more for the benefit of those who don't pay any, I don't want to hear about it. ... Finally, I would insist that anyone who wishes to cast a ballot prove he can read English by passing a basic civics exam. If you don't know who George Washington was and you have no idea what the Bill of Rights is, you have no God-given right to cancel out the vote of someone who does. I mean, for crying out loud, you have to pass a written test and prove you can parallel park to get a driver's license. In order to vote for our political leaders, shouldn't you have to prove anything beyond the fact that you're still alive and breathing -- or, in the case of Chicago elections, that you were ever alive and breathing?"   --columnist Burt Prelutsky

I also liked this quote from Australia's Prime Minister, Julia Gillard, who is not as wishy washy, wimpy and politically "correct" as we in America often are.  She said:

"I am tired of this nation worrying about whether we are offending some individual or their culture. Since the terrorist attacks on  Bali we have experienced a surge in patriotism by the majority of Australians.  
 
'This culture has been developed over two  centuries of struggles, trials and victories by millions of men and women who have sought freedom' 
 
'We speak mainly ENGLISH, not Spanish, Lebanese, Arabic, Chinese, Japanese, Russian, or any other language. Therefore, if you wish to become part of our society. Learn the language!'
 
'Most Australians believe in God. This is not some Christian, right wing, political push, but a fact, because Christian men and women, on Christian principles,  founded this nation, and this is clearly documented. It is certainly appropriate to display it on the walls of our schools. If God offends you, then I suggest you  consider another part of the world as your new home, because God is part of our culture.'  
'We will accept your beliefs, and will not question why. All we ask is that you accept ours, and live in harmony and peaceful enjoyment with us.'
 
'This is OUR COUNTRY, OUR LAND, and OUR LIFESTYLE, and we will allow you every opportunity to enjoy all this. But once you are done complaining, whining, and griping about Our Flag, Our Pledge, Our Christian beliefs, or Our Way of Life, I highly encourage you take advantage of one other great Australian freedom, 'THE RIGHT TO LEAVE'.'
 'If you aren't happy here then LEAVE. We didn't force you to come here. You asked to be here. So accept the country YOU accepted.'   -Julia Gillard, Prime Minister of Australia

And lastly, from Oliver DeMille:

It is a truth universally acknowledged, that when a nation treats business badly, corporations with extra capital take it abroad and the home nation faces job losses and economic challenges.
Such nations experience widespread anxiety about their future, problems feel overwhelming, and the leaders seem unable—or unwilling—to find and implement effective solutions.
But the answers are actually quite clear, if only the people and their leaders have the courage to apply them.
When great nations struggling with debt, deficits, sluggish growth and high unemployment cultivate the most friendly global environment for business investment and economic growth, their economy booms and flourishes.
The current debate in Washington about debts, deficits, taxes, spending cuts and political parties is a lot like a Jane Austen novel.
There are attractive, well-spoken charmers who turn out to be villains, shockingly inappropriate self-promoters, and well-meaning individuals of influence whose personal flaws and arrogance cause problems around them—even as they are entertaining to the audience.
There are also regular, good people who stand to gain or lose a lot.
And, above all, there is the romance of important things happening, things which touch us on a level deeper than the intellect.
The most striking similarity, however, may be that the first paragraph of the story—and even the title—contain the whole answer.
Readers who carefully ponder the thoughts of the first paragraph of certain Austen novels get a preview and veritable overview of the whole plot to come.
In Pride and Prejudice, for example, the reader discovers in the first several sentences that the daughters of a modestly-situated family are in need of marrying well and that their prospects have just improved due to the proximity of a promising young man.
The plot is pretty much determined at this point.
The girl will get the boy, after some courtship, disappointments, major crisis, and so on.
And since we are told right off the bat that more than one girl needs to get a boy, we can be sure that at least some of them will succeed.
The title helps too: we can be fairly certain that the disappointments and crises will have something to do with pride, prejudice and misunderstandings, and that when these flaws are overcome the crises will be over and the story will find resolution.
The same is true of our current national narrative, which could be entitled Debts and Deficits.

Chapter II: A Rocket Science Conclusion

It really isn’t rocket science to conclude, even without going into detail, that deficits will be solved by spending less than we bring in, and that debt will be overcome either by not borrowing too much in the first place or by growing the economy to bring in surpluses that pay off the obligated amount.
Of course, it is in the details, dialogues, relationships and minutiae that the real fun is found.
Who will succeed?
Who will show their true colors?
Which characters will face reality and change?
How will the audience respond?
Still, whatever the particulars, the plot is generally known from the beginning.
Yes, it is within the realm of possibility that the whole thing could turn strangely off course.
The story could progress, develop and build toward crescendo only to suddenly go in some strange and totally unexpected direction, but only by refusing to overcome the debts and deficits.
These are what the story is about, after all, so dealing with them is vital—and eventually this is what will happen.
Americans want two things which seem to be in conflict with each other.

Chapter III: Greedy Americans

First, they want freedom, opportunity, prosperity, low taxes and non-intrusive government, and, second, they want a lot of government programs that provide significant benefits which they have become accustomed to enjoying—from roads and schools to trash collection, national defense, personal protection, prescription drug benefits, retirement checks, and much more.
At first glance, it seems impossible to simultaneously increase both.
Either government spending must go down or taxes must go up.
This is the crisis.
Darcy wants massive new programs that will require huge government spending increases, while Lizzie wants tax cuts and decreases in government red tape.
You can imagine the letters they would exchange on the subject.
As the disagreements escalate, both sides eventually resort to name calling: “inferior connections,” “lack of gentlemanly behavior,” “tax cuts for the rich,” “socialists,” “party of no,” “the President has no plan,” etc.
Still, the plot is basically set: overcome your pride or you won’t get what you want, realize that your prejudice has caused you to misread people and their real character, spend less than the nation takes in or see fiscal problems exponentially increase, become attractive to business investment and hiring or watch the economy and unemployment continue to sputter.
Mrs. Bennett’s behavior is shocking; no wonder Darcy feels pride in comparison.
The corporate tax rates in the United States are double those of our top competitors; no wonder jobs are scarce in the United States.
Sometimes the context tells the whole story.
David Cote said on Meet the Press:
“Right now the problem we’ve got is uncertainty of demand. Businesses don’t add until they’re sure that somebody is going to want to actually buy something. To that we’ve added uncertainty of regulation, and when you combine those two it just causes businesses to say, ‘I’m going to wait a little bit.’ And I always find it interesting when I hear government say, ‘We need to create jobs…’ Actually, government doesn’t create jobs. Government can create an environment where jobs can be created, and I think it’s important to start to distinguish between the two.”
Ohio Governor John Kasich added, in the same conversation:
“In my state, where we faced an $8 billion deficit, we wiped it out and eliminated it, and here’s the interesting thing: we have just been taken off of negative watch [credit rating]. In the middle of this we also have jumped—according to CNBC—11 places in terms of business friendly [states]. We’ve been able to cut taxes, improve and reform government, and you know why? We looked it square in the eye because Ohio was dying, and we are beginning to really become business friendly. That is what they’re not doing here in D.C. right now.”
Ohio faced a massive deficit, and overcame it by becoming business friendly, by attracting business growth.
As a result, they were able to cut taxes and drastically improve their economy.
But Washington has yet to make such changes.
As Senator Marco Rubio said on Face the Nation,
“If you talk to job creators, not politicians, not presidents, they will tell you…they’re looking for some regulatory reform….because they think these regulations that are being imposed make America a more unfriendly place to do business. When people tell you, ‘communist China is a better place to do business than America,’ you know you’re in trouble.” ...  (There's more: )   http://oliverdemille.com/2011/08/debts-deficits-jane-austen-story/

The Job Hunt

Well, DH lost his job.  The big boss in Vermont told him he could either move to Vermont with a pay raise, or be fired.  Lovely.  Since we have a blended family, and taking the kids away from their other parents is not okay, we cannot move.  Nor would we.  The big boss is a fickle, tyrannical, non-listener, a bullheaded leader who trusts little, and therefore is not trusted by others. 

We've been job hunting.  Some days, I feel fine, laugh, smile, and see it all as a big adventure.  Other days, my stomach is uneasy, I am sleepless, nervous, and spend a lot of time searching for jobs-- not only for DH, but also for me.  I've gone on two interviews, but I've been halfhearted.  I don't want to leave the baby with a babysitter to work.  I'll do it if it's the only way we can buy groceries and pay for our house, but I don't want to.  At what point should I do it?  I guess I'll leave that up to DH. 

Funny how certain items you used to think were essentials now become optionals when you are shopping.  Funny how everything doesn't cost money, and a lot of things can be done on a shoestring.  Funny how you count your blessings more when you lose a couple of the staples.

Saturday, August 06, 2011

Swedish Stuff From a Missionary's pov: From a Swedish Mission Website

I read the following list on a Swedish Mission website.  I think it's funny, especially because it's Sweden from the point of view of a non-Swedish LDS missionary.<><> <><> <><> <><><><> <><> <><> <><><><> <><><><> <><>
Things That Are Different in Sweden:  For Missionaries


Completely in the spirit of fun, tongue-in-cheek, self-deprecating humor, here is a list of things that are different in Sweden from what we provincial Americans might expect.
  1. Be careful. The next door in the uppgång (walk-up) is the backdoor of the last guy who is still not interested.
  2. Beer in pop machines.
  3. If you guzzle a glass of water on hot day, you are being rude and demanding more NOW!
  4. They have an island called "Island land" (Öland).
  5. Dog Toilets.
  6. Fireworks at christmas, easter and just about every occasion (at least when there's darkness).
  7. Traffic lights click or beep so blind pedestrians can tell whether the light is red or green.
  8. You can take off the showerhead and rinse the conditioner in 30 seconds instead of five minutes. Also you can wash your hair without washing your body if you're in a hurry.
  9. If you're not careful, you will still be knocking on doors in summer at 11:00 pm...and the sun is still out.
  10. You turn on bike headlights in the winter at 3:00 pm.
  11. Old Swedes go on walks with cats and rodents and use a leash to drag the helpless animal behind.
  12. A can of Coke costs USD 2.00 (SEK 15) at a cafe.
  13. Everybody has super deluxe baby carriages with heavy duty wheels.
  14. No matter how little snow there is, everyone uses studded tires all winter.
  15. No salad is complete without grated carrots.
  16. Swedish kids learn to cook in elementary school.
  17. Girls dress up as witches for Easter and boys dress up as hobos.
  18. Kids sell Bingo/Lotto tickets at the grocery store for fund raising projects.
  19. What you think is a Ku Klux Klan rally in December is really a Santa Lucia procession.
  20. All furniture made of light beechwood or pine.
  21. Unedited R-rated movies on regular (non-cable) TV.
  22. Windows with Venetian blinds in-between two panes of glass.
  23. You can camp, hunt, & pick berries on private property.
  24. You attach your phone cord to the wall with something that looks like a 220-V plug.
  25. Everybody owns a cellular phone.
  26. Red boxes around town you put your used batteries in.
  27. Everyone takes the rainiest month off in summer for vacation.
  28. Front doors on the back of houses shaped like barns.
  29. They claim that wall-to-wall carpeting is why americans get sick, but almost everyone in Sweden has a cold.
  30. Americans like fluffy towels, while Swedes like to smash them in a mangler.
  31. Pear ice cream.
  32. Popular pizza toppings include bananas and curry, or artichoke hearts and roast beef.
  33. "Swedish pizza" to missionaries means "thin, flimsy crust made by a middle-eastern person".
  34. If you're patriotic, you're probably a racist.
  35. Köttfärs is not hamburger as we know it.
  36. You can practically step outside your back door and be in a forest, and pick berries that are in season.
  37. You've got to squeegee the whole bathroom floor after taking a shower.
  38. Cab drivers drive Mercedes Benz.
  39. It takes a crew of six Swedes a week to rip up a cobblestone sidewalk, scrape the dirt off the back, and put it back in. (Not counting bad weather, holidays, fikas.)
  40. Cops drive Volvos and Saabs.
  41. Half naked women answer the door.
  42. Swedes don't know what a 'date' is. They always go to dances and parties in a group.
  43. The amount of daylight you get at different times of year, light in the summer, dark in the winter.
  44. You don't have to lock your bicycle to a lamp post. Just lock the wheel so it doesn't turn, and nobody will take it.
  45. You can't buy greeting cards, aspirin, deli sandwiches, develop film, rent videos or bank at the grocery store, but you have to do all that at separate stores.
  46. When you order spaghetti, don't forget to ask for sauce and meatballs, or all you'll get is the noodles.
  47. Pear-flavored and blood-orange-flavored pop.
  48. While Snapple claims to be made from the best stuff on earth, Bob saft is the best stuff on earth.
  49. Pregnant women bicycle.
  50. More store owners honor the Sabbath day.
  51. Plastic grocery bags made to last more than five minutes.
  52. You can't tell by looking at what kind of handle a door has whether you should push or pull.
  53. "Valentine's Day" decorations at Christmas time
  54. Illuminated red buttons to turn the hallway lights on for two minutes.
  55. Root beer is not popular. The natives think it tastes like toothpaste.
  56. Corn on the cob is not for human consumption.
  57. Chocolate soda pop.
  58. You can ride a bicycle without getting killed.
  59. "Kaviar" (actually smoked cod roe) is a snack food in toothpaste tubes.
  60. If an elevator is on the third floor and you are on the first and want to go up, you have to tell the elevator to come down.
  61. Elevators with no doors on the cab, just the stationary ones at each floor. You could touch the wall moving past as the elevator moves.
  62. Continuously running elevators that you jump on and off of like a ski lift (paternoster?).
  63. Licorice can be salty. You'll burn your mouth if you're not careful.
  64. Rotten fish in a bulging can is a delicacy (surströmming).
  65. Riding a bicycles on a cobblestone street.
  66. Shaving not as popular with girls.
  67. Rose hip tea (nypon soppa).
  68. "Hockey" with curved clubs and a very small ball (bandy).
  69. Traffic lights turn yellow on both stop and go.
  70. Doorknobs on toilets and toilet handles on doors.
  71. Asking for "peanut butter and jelly" is like asking for "rock candy and frosting."
  72. You can get by on SEK 5,- in food budget per week. Everybody wants you to come in and "fika."
  73. It's not surprising to see a movie theater or a bicycle repair shop closed for a month in the middle of the summer.
  74. You go to a health food store to buy maple syrup.
  75. If you order a pizza with olives you get a whole unpitted olive rolling around on top of your pizza.
  76. A clothes dryer is a luxury (but a drying room isn't).
  77. The spin cycle is handled by a different machine than the wash and rinse cycles.
  78. If you think a Swede is suffocating she may just be saying yes.
  79. You can serve ice cream with a knife.
  80. Mayonnaise comes in toothpaste tubes.
  81. If it weren't for the engine running you might be able to hear a pin drop on a bus with 75 people on it.
  82. When a Swede talks about "the system", he's not talking about beating the establishment; he's talking about buying liquor.
  83. A person who speaks only one language is rarer in Sweden than a polyglot is in the USA.
Thanks to Donald Einar Asp, Mathew Bone, Ted Boren, Rick Bosler, David Boss, Brian M. Boyd, James Davis, Harold Dozier, Gustav-Eric Engstrom, Erick Hartman, Ric Jensen, Christian Karlsson, Dale Olson, Gary Oviatt, Kenth I. Svensson, Lee Swindlehurst and Chad Woolley.

The National Debt Quote of the Day

"If the US Government was a family, they would be making $58,000 a year, they spend $75,000 a year & have $327,000 in credit card debt. They are currently proposing BIG spending cuts to reduce their spending to $72,000 a year. These are the actual proportions of the federal budget & debt, reduced to a level that we can understand." - Dave Ramsey

Monday, August 01, 2011

I love Ilon Wikland Illustrations

Much as I love the books of Astrid Lindgren, sometimes I think it's the illustrations of those books, (most are by Ilon Wikland) that have created much of that loving feeling.

So, here are some Ilon Wikland illustrations.  Enjoy!

Of Course Polly Can Ride a Bike


















Catching Up

Husband, Stepdaughter, baby H.

I just wanted to post a few photos from July. It was such a busy month with seven of us here, most of the seven, most of the time. --Lots of laundry, dishes, laughter, noise, and not that much sleep.
Corn on the cob boy

My sister and baby H.






Two neices and a stepdaughter.  :)

A.J., of course.











C.E.



Ten and a half months old

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